HELP on Getting girlfriend back?

Hi , i have been with this girl for 11 years . we hav 2 boys together ages 9 / 5 . 9 months ago she told me she wanted 2 break up because of what the things i was doing and the things i wasn't . eg:not helping around the house , also playing my xbox online to much , not doing the dad things with my kids . so she ends it , so one morning before work i checked her phone 'bad move' i found dirty txt messages from another guy . so i asked her about them then that's when i knew my time was up so i packed my things and left . weeks past and she tells me she's seeing someone . that broke my heart even more , she starts going out heaps with him , while i take care of our 2 boys . she tells me that he treats her like a princess i reply ed by saying but your my one . anyways lot has past now and that guy lasted about 2 months , the sad thing was i knew him and that shes still friends with him.i asked a friend what happened they said because he was a comment Phoebe not sure really what happened tho . i go round to her house once a week to take my son to karate and she tends to ask me to stay for dinner ? and shes also being super nice witch bothers me a little , she also tends to dress trashy ? and going out a lot to festival's stuff maybe looking for sex . 2 weeks ago she started calling me babe and hun again ? , but i still call her by her first name how long should i wait to ask her back out with me ? cos now it seems don't want to ask her back-out in case of being rejected . nor do i want to rush back in guns blazing . shes 30 im 29 but shes acting like shes 18 again will this faze pass please help :-) thanksHELP on Getting girlfriend back?
You should like call her stupid and be all like, ';hey stupid face.'; ';Stupid head!'; ';Whats up stupid stupid.'; Stupid whats up derp!HELP on Getting girlfriend back?
Give it some time. It appears she may be appreciating you more. Open up your lines of communication. You two need to talk.
Do you really want her back, and would you really trust her. You both need to learn to be responsible role models for your kids. Playing video games online and going out like an 18 year old is not appropriate behaviour. You just need to be honest about your needs and expectations in a relationship and first ask yourself if you think she meets them and then ask her if she's willing to meet them and maintain them. She will also have expectations of you and you need to think about if you really want that lifestyle long term and if you can maintain it.





Then ask her out again, completely forget the past and pretend you're meeting for the first time and get to know eachother again. Make it fun. Turn off the xbox, leave mobile/cell phones at home and switch them off at 10pm at night and on at 9am. Between these times is just for the two of you. Work on your relationship with your partner and your kids and you can't go wrong.